Something’s fishy in Ryan O’Connor’s cute children’s book for ages 3 to 10 called Bobby the Bear and His Missing Dinner (Xlibris).

No sooner has Bobby set out to catch a fish for his meal and put it on the fire than it suddenly disappears in the split second he turns to greet his friend Fred the Fox.

This sets off the delightful pace of the tale, as Bobby and Fred begin the search for the missing dinner. They will encounter a variety of characters — Tanya the Tiger, Rachel the Rabbit — who know nothing about the disappearing dinner but are happy to come along and join the search.

As it turns out, the mystery doesn’t last long. As the friends come upon Peter the Panther, the animal confesses that he was so hungry, knew he was not capable of catching his own fish, and decided to grab Bobby’s. 

Bobby’s response is touching, providing a great lesson for children: “‘It’s OK, Peter. All you had to do was ask, and I would have happily shared the fish with you.’”

“Bobby the Bear put his big paw around Peter the Panther and said, ‘We are all friends, and we should never take something that belongs to others. We need to be honest and help each other out. That’s what friends do for one another!’”


Rather than beat children over the head with messages, the author weaves valuable learning into the story about honesty, friendship, forgiveness, sharing and caring. “I want to help them learn ethical and moral lessons in a different way, through a unique story,” said O’Connor in a recent radio interview on the show Author Voices.

The concept of reading is becoming something of the past, according to O’Connor, who is determined to get kids off their screens and into the pages. He recalled that his parents, strong advocates of reading, would devote time every evening to having Ryan and his siblings each find their nook in the living room and go about reading their own books. “It opens up a world of imagination for [kids] — that anything is possible,” he said.

Today, O’Connor’s commitment to encouraging kids to read is greater than ever. Living in China, he is far away from his nieces and nephews. While trying to teach a class of his how to formulate characters and put a story together, he decided to do one on his own — as a way of reaching out to his young relatives. As it turns out, the illustrator for Bobby the Bear is the author’s 16-year-old stepdaughter.

Young children not only will find an engaging story in Bobby the Bear and His Missing Dinner but in the end, will learn a lot more — as did Bobby and his friends — than what happens to a missing piece of fish.

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Ryan O’Connor is a literature and writing teacher in Shanghai, China and the author of the children’s book series Bobby the Bear. The other book is Merry Christmas, Bobby the Bear! With a background in sports journalism and education, Ryan has now turned his focus to writing children’s books. Through unique characters, Ryan provides children with moral and life lessons. Ryan has earned a bachelor’s degree in journalism, where he would go on to win numerous awards for sports writing, and a Master’s in Education.

About Xiang Manke:

Xiang Manke is an aspiring artist who has been studying traditional Chinese art for more than seven years. She recently passed one of China’s highest art exams.